Standing Up For whats right
Yesterday a girl was getting teased in the cafe. Another girl got people to also tease her. I was watching this happen and then I thought I am going to stand up for her. I stood up from my seat and walked over to the girl that was getting people to tease her. "Hey who do you think you are teasing her like that?" I said firmly. She looked at me. "What I am not doing anything." she said. I shook my head at her. "I heard you teasing her. So you can't lie straight to my face." I repiled. "Well I am not lying to you." she said. I was getting angry. "Yeah you were teasing her and its not okay. Your making fun of her just because she is younger than you. Its none of your business to be telling people that!" I say really annoyed. She looks away. "I have never been a bully in my life" she says really fast. Thats a lie everyone is a bully before. "Everyone is a bully sometimes. And your lying you've bullied me before" I yell. "Well you can go now I really can't stand that face!" she screams. Then suddenly a teacher looks over and she starts crying. "Whats wrong?" the teacher askes. "Emily is bullying me!" she complains. And guess what I get in trouble. The girl who was getting bullied thanked me. But was it my fault I got in trouble? I am glad I helped but I got in trouble just for standing up for whats right? Is that fair she belived the other girl's story not mine?
The crippled life
Hello my name is Travis Napper and I am a special needs student at Columbus state community college. my bullying experience started when I was younger in elementary school. I was born with a mild form of whats known as spina bifida. when I as in elementary school the bullying for me was more mental and psychological. I was always called freak or cripple or any other derogatory names you can call a special needs kid. it wasn't until I got older that the abuse started to get a little bit physical. I remember one day when I was going to school our bathrooms were right near the elevator. I was on my way to the elevator to get to class. I was in my wheelchair at the time and they had handle bars like most wheelchairs do. someone came up behind and started to try and push me right into the girls bathroom. I locked the brakes and grabbed my wheels as hard as I could and stopped them before they could get me in there. I remember how mad and embarrassed I was. I wanted soo bad to take my anger out on that kid and do some horrible things to him. but I walked away and realized he wasn't worth it. as I grew up to middle school the names still continues but to me as I grew up they were just names to me. just words, titles, things that started to mean nothing to me. I am now 19 years old and still kicking strong. I have aligned myself with several non bullying outlets like this one. I am a member of rachels challenge which also deals with anti bullying. I am a member of groups that I help start within my schools and I want to be as much a valuable asset I can to your organization. thank you and god bless
#dontBULLY
Facebook and twitter and other social networks have created another problem with bullying ...you can bully online and cause alot of harm ...I've been bully on facebook... there where many rumors about me and my past... i would cry every night ..i was afraid to tell someone thinking it would get worst ..this when on for years and years and it was very stressful.... and to everyone who is getting bullied.. TELL SOMEONE and keep on telling people until something is done ... bullying is not okay and if YOU stand up for your self or someone ..others will follow and we can stomp out the bullys ...Love yourself and know your amazing in every way...
My project
Born under the shadow of someone else!
The 15th of July is my Birthday.
I was born in the shadow of someone else my uncle how never let me forget it.So being born on his birthday made him an automatic a guarden to me along with two others cousins.So what this meant to and for me was that I had too call him,send a card making sure that he would get it on or before his birthday and even buy him a gift to taketo all his birthday parties.
For him it meant nothing but to remind me that he was born first and having the same birthday he didn't have to do a dam thing for me because I was not important at all even my aunt would remind me of how I was a NOBODY.
On his 80th birthday his family throw him a big party at his church.I had to cancel my plans of going out to eat and going to the Waterloo dog track with my boyfriend to go to my uncles birthday party with a gift and food.So my boyfriend drops me off at the church and goes to the dog track anyway.Everyone was there just for him and NO one had a gift for me or sang Happy Birthday for or too me.Except for my mom,I wasn't invisible or a nobody she was very proud of me.. I even had to bring food and a gift for my uncle and nobody brought me any gifts except for my mom.
Even after he pasted away I still had to go to the visitation and the funeral and anything else that was included.And I was still reminded and had my nose rubbed in it by my aunt that he was and still was more important then me and I would Never Ever Be Anything Without Him.
After my aunt pasted away it was finally ended of being told that I was nothing and became FREE to have abirthday that no one else in my family has so it's all mine.
It really hurt then and still how my aunt and uncle could be that mean too me my whole life and extra mean on a special day my Birthday.
I just wish that one time in my childhood that my aunt,uncle and family would have cared enough about me to throw me a birthday party like they did
with him.
So the only thing that is different now is I lost my dad in(1994)and my mom in (1997)and at the same time I lost a sister and four brothers a long
with their families because they don't want anything to do with each other and this family(ME).
So I go back to being invisible every day and no one cares that I have a Birthday again.Like last year was a big deal for me I hit the big 50 and
nobody called,e-mailed or anything.I celebrated by myself at Wendy's and went to a movie where there was only 2 other people at that movie.
The rest of the day was like that too.
I guess this is what it was meant to be a life of invisiblity and lonely birthdays with nobody but myself too celebrate them and too remember them.
I do know that the only ones that cared about celebrating my birthday's was my dad how took me on motorcycle rides and would spend most of the day
with me and if he had too work he would leave me a birthday note on the kitchen table.And mom would take me out shopping even if we didn't buy
anything and we would go to are favorite place to eat.Which I will not say because that way we are still there on my special day.
How do I miss them.
the roumors..
just recently I thought I had a ton of friends. I thought that they had my back, and they could keep my secrets. But in reality they were just spreading them. last night I got in to bed to go to sleep. I checked my phone to see who had texted me. I had different messages but the main one that made me hurt was from the guy I cared for most. it said " I have people telling me that your a whore and they tell me all the things you've done.." I didn't know how to respond I busted in to tears and I felt like I had no one. I asked him if it was a guy or girl and all he said was girl. that just shows me that I cant really trust anyone. I felt alone and hurt and I couldn't even think straight. its not the first time some one has told me they heard that. I had to call my sister and tell her I wanted to come over because I didn't want to be alone. I didn't tell her why or what was wrong just that I needed her. I honestly don't trust myself by myself. and I don't want to talk to my parents because I don't want them involved... I just don't know what to do anymore. I guess I want to be done. done taking it in.
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FAILED 6TH GRADE: Bullying
My name is Tonea Parker and I am Advocating to get a Law passed in Minnesota, to end Bullying! I grew up in a middle-class neighborhood and I was bullied. I chose to not associate with girl's that were loud and attracted the wrong type of attention. I was jumped by a group of several African American girls every day after school. I had to fight daily against girls who bullied because I was fair-skinned, long hair, and green eyes. I was told that, "I thought I was white", just because my friends were another race. I was picked on because of my skin color and because I chose to have positive friend's and I was pretty. I cannot begin to tell you the things Bullying robbed from me experiencing. For a long time no-one helped me, no one stood up for me, then a teacher asked me to talk to her. My grades had suffered terribly and everything was a mess. Today, living in another state and in college full-time. I am Advocating to put an end to my daughter being bullied because she is different. Bullying is wrong, we can no longer turn the other cheek! We are loosing children to suicide and drop-out's in school. I challenge you to stand up and be counted, put an end to BULLYING...




