A Writer From Tidwell

My name is Michelle this is not my story, this is a story about a boy from Roanoke...a writer from tidwell..a story that made the news. I have been following this story since mid March. A boy from Tidwell Middle School was being bullied...reports were made, but nothing was done. From what I gather the boy was placed in therapy. The bullying he endured was just too much for him to handle alone. I applaud his parents for taking the steps to ensure his emotional well being. The boys therapist told the boy to write about his feelings, to blog about it. The boy is apparently a creative writer and writes all the time according to his father. The boy began to write and write and write some more, he posted his stories for the world to see. Killing the Children is what he called it. In the stories he murders these children, he gives names of students, teachers, and a bus driver. The stories were read and met with a great deal of concern. What was a gruesome display of anger and outrage to those who had hurt him and failed him was not seen as a cry for help, but as a threat. The boy was charged for a crime and pulled out of school. He was evaluated for two weeks, the result of his evaluation was that he was not some murderous monster, but a hurt and deeply wounded child. One who chose to vent through his writing. The indictment against the boy was dropped and he was allowed to go back to school, only to be terrorized some more. Not only had the students bullied him, but now their parents bully him. Like a modern day scene from the Salem witch trials the parents go to the school with their signs like pitchforks protesting against the boy. Chanting to keep their children safe. There is even a girl that says her and her friend were a victim of his last year....good job little girl for mimicking a scene out of Salem Witch trials. The parents fear this boy, they believe he will become another Columbine, they believe he is a ticking time bomb waiting to happen with their precious bullies within reach of harms way. They must protect their bullies, they must make sure they do not get hurt. The parents of this boy should have rallied a protest against these bullies, the parents should have made signs asking the school to protect his son from these monsters, from their hatred. However that didn't happen, because it never does. Instead the bullies have become the victim and the victim has become the monster. The bullies planted a seed of hatred within a boy and that hatred grew with the hatred they placed there now they all run around in fear wondering why....why me....why was I named in his gruesome story? The parents shelter their children in fear, but never taught them to have empathy for others, for those who are different. The parents never taught their kids kindness towards others. They didn't teach them to stand up for those who could not defend themselves and now they are teaching them how to pretend to be the victim on their own mess.

I have been following this story for the past couple of weeks. My heart goes out to this boy, whoever he is. Shame on them for hurting you this way. I am sorry that people can be so mean. I am sorry they made you feel so bad. If I could I would hug you and tell you it will all be ok. We are not all like them, there are some of out here who will stand up for you!!! There are some of out here who will embrace you as you are and some of us that will applaud your creative gift of story telling. I did not know these parents were going to protest, I would have gladly called into work and protested as well, but against them with a sign that said stop the bullying!! Teach your children empathy!! I apologize for their ignorance, they fear what they do not understand, they fear what is different. Instead of trying to put themselves in your place to try and understand how you must feel about yourself...they lash out.

The parents of these bullies should be ashamed of themselves. Teach your children to respect their peers. To be kind and to have a heart. There are consequences to being mean and evil. God does not like ugly. Teach your children to have empathy please. Do not put more bullies into this world....we have enough thank you!!

Where ever this boy is, he is in pain....because see he endured bullying, he was humiliated, tortured and the ones who were supposed to protect him failed to do so. There is this theory that the bullied must step up against the bully and stick up for themselves. Give him a good punch in the nose. If this boy was a threat, he would have already done that. He obviously is not a person who will hurt someone. After being bullied he was charged for a crime, his story plastered on the news for all to see. He was taken out of school and placed under evaluation, his indictment was dropped and he was allowed to go back to school only to be met with the scorn of the bully's parents. I can not imagine what this boy is going through or what he feels inside, his father said that his son was a good student and would never hurt anyone. I believe his father because it is plain to see that his son was the one being hurt and continues to be hurt. No one will stand up for this boy. No one will protect him. I want to, but I don't know how to help this 14 year old writer from Roanoke who attends Tidwell Middle School.

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My Mask

Every time my mom asked if I was okay I nodded and smiled and she believed me but on the inside I was hopeless I wanted to stop drowning and I couldn't lift myself up. It wasn't until I started noticing things about myself, my hair started falling out and I would scratch my arm until I bled I had to go the the hospital because of what I was doing to myself and my mom found out I was getting bullied for two years and saying nothing. It wasn't until my last year at school is when they became physical and actually did something,i was lost and I started believing what they was saying to me stopped scratching my arm a year before but I was failing school and I developed insomnia and depression.

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My bullying story

When I was in sixth grade, 11 yrs old, I was first starting middle school. I knew I would get bullies, but I didn't know I would get bullied that badly. I was called really mean things and it lead me to self harm. I know now that self harm is not the way to go, but that felt like the only escape. I would cry everyday, and I was so happy when 6th grade ended. Then I started 7th grade and the bullying stopped for a little, but then it came back. I was hit once or twice but I didn't cry, I didn't self harm, I stood up for my self, then, glad fully, the bullying stopped.
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I was once bullied

For a very long time I was bullied for every reason possible and the first thing that many children think of is suicide but for me I didn't think of suicide I thought about how I could try and change my life and stop the bullying. But I think the children of the 21st century really need to wake up and smell the coffee because not everyone is perfect and not everyone has perfect skin , a gorgeous face and in fact a gorgeous body. Everyone tries but no one actually succeeds.
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still living a nightmare

I'm 27 now and I have been bullied since grade two. I thought when I finished high school it would stop and it hasn't . in 2006 I was rushed to the hospital twice in one week for aniexity .I even thought about quitting school but I held on . I thought about running away but stuck around. So I started cutting and.only stopped when I was 22 . so its been five years and I still want to but I write poetry instead. I still have nightmares due to the bullying I have PDST because of it and everyday is a battle but I fight it
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never to old to feel bullied

Lisa, We were never really close, To be honest, I always thought you were a little "off' but now I'm convinced that you are mentally unstable. Not sure what Simone ever did to you, but I'm sure it doesnt warrant your disgusting comments. I think you and David's mother and sister are a pathetic crew, it doesnt surprise me that you all have been alone for all these years. I really hope that you decide to just stay far far away from her and make no more conrtact, I'm a true believer in Karma and am sure you will get your's one day. Sharon
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never to old to get bullied

Lisa, We were never really close, To be honest, I always thought you were a little "off' but now I'm convinced that you are mentally unstable. Not sure what Simone ever did to you, but I'm sure it doesnt warrant your disgusting comments. I think you and David's mother and sister are a pathetic crew, it doesnt surprise me that you all have been alone for all these years. I really hope that you decide to just stay far far away from her and make no more conrtact, I'm a true believer in Karma and am sure you will get your's one day. Sharon
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Defender of the Bullied

In my High School years and in fact all my life I have been the defender of the bullied! I hate to see & feel the sorrow, pain, guilt and condemnation of people being bullied. I have to stand up for them. I know that each person was created for a  purpose and a reason and NO BODY is a reject! God saw that person in His mind and He said "Wow I love them" so He created them. I like to say it like this. Pretend you are a clothing designer, you see this beautiful, cool outfit that you know everyone will want- so you create it. That is how God made you. He saw you in His mind and He said, "I love them I will create them and everyone will be blessed by them" He loves you no matter what! No judging, you are always good enough, He loves you so much that He made a way for you to come back to Him as His kid by just accepting His love gift of Jesus.... thats it.... no doing, or being good enough, do enough, just accepting His love gift. HE cleans you up so good that He comes and lives inside you to guide you, love you, protect you and give you wisdom!How cool is that!! I love you and Father God loves you.. need prayer leave me a message or check out my blog www.robinbremer.net and my new one I am still working on www.TheBiggestBully.net

Robin Bremer Author and Creator of "The Biggest Bully" Project

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Defender of the Bullied

In my High School years and in fact all my life I have been the defender of the bullied! I hate to see & feel the sorrow, pain, guilt and condemnation of people being bullied. I have to stand up for them. I know that each person was created for a  purpose and a reason and NO BODY is a reject! God saw that person in His mind and He said "Wow I love them" so He created them. I like to say it like this. Pretend you are a clothing designer, you see this beautiful, cool outfit that you know everyone will want- so you create it. That is how God made you. He saw you in His mind and He said, "I love them I will create them and everyone will be blessed by them" He loves you no matter what! No judging, you are always good enough, He loves you so much that He made a way for you to come back to Him as His kid by just accepting His love gift of Jesus.... thats it.... no doing, or being good enough, do enough, just accepting His love gift. HE cleans you up so good that He comes and lives inside you to guide you, love you, protect you and give you wisdom!How cool is that!! I love you and Father God loves you.. need prayer leave me a message or check out my blog www.robinbremer.net and my new one I am still working on www.TheBiggestBully.net

Robin Bremer Author and Creator of "The Biggest Bully" Project

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Defender of the Bullied

In my High School years and in fact all my life I have been the defender of the bullied! I hate to see & feel the sorrow, pain, guilt and condemnation of people being bullied. I have to stand up for them. I know that each person was created for a  purpose and a reason and NO BODY is a reject! God saw that person in His mind and He said "Wow I love them" so He created them. I like to say it like this. Pretend you are a clothing designer, you see this beautiful, cool outfit that you know everyone will want- so you create it. That is how God made you. He saw you in His mind and He said, "I love them I will create them and everyone will be blessed by them" He loves you no matter what! No judging, you are always good enough, He loves you so much that He made a way for you to come back to Him as His kid by just accepting His love gift of Jesus.... thats it.... no doing, or being good enough, do enough, just accepting His love gift. HE cleans you up so good that He comes and lives inside you to guide you, love you, protect you and give you wisdom!How cool is that!! I love you and Father God loves you.. need prayer leave me a message or check out my blog www.robinbremer.net and my new one I am still working on www.TheBiggestBully.net

Robin Bremer Author and Creator of "The Biggest Bully" Project

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