If Your Bullied, don't turn into one.

I was once bullied online. One of my friends accounts got hacked by another person. The person had started to call me names. I argued back ( bad idea. ) I said "What is your problem?" Because then i didn't know it was a hacker. We began arguing more and more. Then someone else decided to join in.... except for the other person. At one point I felt alone and decided to say " Can you stop! I have like no friends right now!" They argued back saying "Oh. I wonder WHY you don't have any friends." I then took a screenshot of the conversation, posted it, and got tons of love back. I started feeling a LOT better and I realized I did have LOTS of good friends there to help me! Then the person said another thing. This one was even worse then the last thing they said. I ended up posting that one too. I forget exactly what they said. One thing they said was calling me an "attention seeker." I got so much love and comments back but i still felt pretty horrible! Later on i realized the person got hacked. When my friend got her account back she apologized and told me about the hacker and everything! We are still great friends and i became friends with the other person that joined in. Everyone apologized except the hacker.. I have never heard back from that person. Nor do i know who it was. This comes up often making me want to cry but then i think about all the love i got and now i feel like i have a great place in this world! The night this happened it made me feel sad and worthless and i felt like curling up and read to die.

 

 

However that same night.. I was in such a bad mood! I ended up getting in a HUGE FIGHT with my best friend since kindergarten. I ended up telling her all the things I was mad at her about and being honest. But little did i know that night that i was bullying also. This made me feel powerful, but at the same time i wish i hadn't of said any of those things. This also made me feel good because I was letting all my feelings out but yet I wish I  hadn't of let it out on my bff.  I also felt like I could  have been nicer when saying it and more gentle because I didn't mean to let alllll my feelings out. I began crying A LOT after the incident. The other person must have felt mad, and like crap. If I could put myself in that persons shoes, I would not FEEL GOOD AT ALL!!!!!

 

SO LESSON LEARNED, IF YOUR BULLIED DON'T END UP TURNING AROUND AND BEING THE BULLY!!!!!! I END UP TELLING MYSELF THIS ALL THE TIME, AND YOU SHOULD TO. PLZ COMMENT DOWN BELOW AND TELL ME ANY TIMES YOU HAVE BEEN BULLIED AND THEN TURNED AROUND AND STARTED BULLYING.

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Stop Bullying

I was bullied at home a lot of times. My sister calls me names, but she would call me names because I "made" her mad. She always gets mad for everything, and when I try to cheer her up, she calls me names. I feel sad and horrible when she calls me names at home. She sometimes calls me names to play around, but I take them serious and it makes me fell bad. It doesn't happen all the time, it only happens when she is mad at someone. I sometimes want to cry when she calls me stuff. I was once a bully to. I bullied my brother and sister. I told them that they were over weighted. I also tell them that no one likes them. It made me feel really good at once, but then I felt horrible cause I knew how much pain my brother and sister were going through. My brother and sister felt really bad. They were sad and they felt horrible. They then start crying because of what I told them. When they cry, I feel awful because I know I hurt their feelings. When they cry, my feelings hurt because I don't like hurting people.

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When i was bullied & when i was a bully

I have  been bullied so many times by mostly everyone. But they haven't even noticed. A lot of the people call me fat. I know it's true but it doesn't mean they have to rub it in my face. I used to cry a lot but now it has zero importance to me because thanks to them i have only gotten stronger not weaker. All i do now is show them i don't care by ignoring them. Another time is when the used to make fun of my face saying really mean things i prefer not to say.......... Another time was on the bus when this kid used to punch me like everyday and would call me fat and said i was a "pinata", until i got tired of it! and and took it to the principle. She took care of it and thanks to me speaking up i'm better now.......... My mom always tells me if someone bully's me i have to take it straight to an adult but to especially tell her first. 
I have also bullied people without knowing and honestly it doesn't feel good.  I'm not a mean person or a bully but i have talked bad about people behind their back and said mean words back but it was only because this girl named Norma Vara had called me a "fat cow" and i told her that she looked deformed and that it looked like a tractor ran over her face. Afterwards i honestly felt soooooooooo bad and guilty! She  said sorry and so did i . Now i have learned my lesson on not talking bad about people because it's bad and does you no good. Once you grow up everything you have done you will eventually regret it....................

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It gets better

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It gets better

In 6th grade i got bullied all the time. At lunch at school on the bus. I never thought it would get better. On the bus was the worst. This guy I kinda liked would make fun of me. He would say things like: ugly, that i was a guy. But the thing was that he was dating my BEST friend. i would only sit in the set behind them because she was my friend and she wanted me to sit by her. 

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Being bullied by your own friends

When i was at my old school i had many many friend until one day we all had plans to go to my friends house for her birthday and she invited alot of girls to her party from school and we were all talking and everything was just fine until she kept pulling me aside to tell me about how her brother was always calling her names and making fun of her about certain things like being skinny and what not but the other girls wanted to know what we where talking about and she said it was'ant about them or anything and they didn't really go for it so they locked me in her closet and wouldn't open the door so i kept on pushing on the door and it wouldn't budge so i pushed harder and it finnaly flung open and smooshed the  girl that wouldn't open the door and everyone was laughing at me saying i was mean for smooshing the girl that was holding the door and i kept saying that she shouldn't have been holding the door in the first place and they all started yelling at me calling me names and telling me to go die in a hole and callling me the b**** and lots of other mean things so i called my mom to pick me up and she came and that monday everyone hated me and my bestfriend betrayed me and kept calling me more and more names and i kept going home crying and my mom would say whats wrong and stuff and i told her and she told the office and they didnt do anything besides say it didn't start at school so i had to deal with it then my family finally moved me schools to oak creek school which is a much better school and don't have to deal with as much drama and bulling as much as i did 

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when I was bullied and when I bullied

I am ben I am 13 years and im a 7th grader at OAK CREEK school bullied a lot when I play basketball they call me short  and sometimes throw the ball at my face they do it almost all the time i ask them to stop and they don't and they make fun of my speech impediment and it sometimes is not that bad and sometimes it is horrible like i dont even want to come to school.  

 

Sometimes I bully people when I get MAD and I feel bad afterwords and  I wish i didnt do it and I realize now that bullying is not fun or funny it can do a lot of damage on other kids.   STOP BULLYING!!!!!!!!

 

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what I think about bullying

I have a message for ever one that needs to think about what I'm gonna say ok here is the message: if you think no one cares about you just think again because family and friends care about you and wanna protect you they love you so much and why do people don't come up to people that are being bullied and stand up for them if you stand up for a person that is being bullied then you will change the persons life and they will feel safe and will feel cared about if you are a cyber bully or a real life bully just think that when your bullying it affects the person that is being bullied and affects the bully the bully is only hurting their self because you will be avoided because you hurting people if your a bully then think about what your doing bullying is not just punching kicking and hurting them to make them bleed or cry bullying is also saying hurtful stuff to someone and making fun of them by their looks and their religion and culture and what they like that is also bullying thousands of people commit suicide from being bullied stop thinking bullying is cool PEOPLE NEED TO STOP BULLYING BULLIES MAKE FUN OF PEOPLE BY their COLOR OR IF THE PERSON IS GAY LESBIAN OR A MIX OF GIRL AND BOY OR STRAIGHT PEOPLE THAT IS NOT RIGHT IF PEOPLE BULLY OTHER PEOPLE BY WHAT THEY ARE THE PEOPLE FEELING BULLIED FEEL LIKE NO ONE SEES THEM AND THEY FEEL INVISIBLE AND THEY FEEL LIKE A GHOST EVERYONE NEEDS TO STOP BULLYING and people need to stop abusing animals or elderly or teens or kids that's not right EVERYONE WHO IS MAKING THE ANIMALS FIGHT ITS NOT RIGHT THAT'S CRUEL AND IT HURTS ANIMALS people don't need to make fun of people everyone needs to make depressed people feel included a true friend is someone who has your back and hangs out with you even though your weird or crazy a true friend stop judging people by their looks actually judge if they have a good heart its about the inside and people need to stop dating people for their money and people need to stop marrying other people for their money people need to date someone for who they are or merry someone for who they are and people think how can you encourage people and inspire them like this if you agree smile emoticon this is what I think smile emoticon thanks for reading this message oh btw stop being selfish about how much money or what you have because other people can't afford that much smile emoticon — feeling blessed. Like · · Share
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Do it for ash

A transgender teenager who committed suicide after being tormented by school bullies left a series of tragic notes asking that she was not remembered as 'the girl with problems'. Ashlyn Haffner, from Indian Trail, North Carolina, died late last month when she stepped in front of a car after slowly beginning to transition to a man. But Ashlyn, also known as Ash, was regularly bullied, which her mother April Quick - referring to her child with the 'she' pronoun - has revealed in a series of heart-breaking notes found written on her child's iPad. The 16-year-old wrote: 'If I die, I don't want to be remembered as the sad person I was,' according to a post on her tribute page. She continued: 'I don't want to be remembered as the f***** gay girl with all the scars on her arm. Unfortunately that's who I am to a lot of people.
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You are Beautiful, Loved and Worth Living For

My Name is Ayana and Im 19 yrs old I was Verbally Bullied during my childhood and middle school. i was slapped twice and i was always called a stupid fat midgit slut biotch. I never had true friends they pretended to be my friends just to play with me and laugh at me afterwards. they made up rumors of me making others believe i really am an awful person and make them see im the bully when im not.
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